When will you ever learn!!. Most gaijin men..oops ALL gaijin men will eventually go back home to wherever they really come from..and get no women back home...face it, they aren't that great!!..But the SOME Japanese females think they are...I called these type of girls, banana Jgirls..Yellow outside and trying to be white inside...So they are the one who get into trouble when they meet whitey here on these types of "friend finders"...well...let this be a lesson to ALL banana girls to be safe and enjoy your lovely Japanese culture..because the white man's culture is soooooo unpredictable...plus you aint going back home with them!!..they probably end up going to China or Thailand to become Pedophiles!1..its cheaper there for them....Japan can be expensive you know!...drinks, dinner, and love hotel...most whitys dont have savings..Do you remember NOVA??..most teachers didnt have squat in there accounts!!....overall gaijin= drink, have fun, and free sex. Banana Jgirls = White arm candy and being cool in front of there japanese countrymen!!
Regards,
An Observent Gaijin..

Calm down lol.

Yes, there probably are some people like that out there, but I for one don't plan on being a pedophile in thailand (lol?)

If you're dating someone on an internship or just for vacation, then you both know it's going to end sometime, unless you're going to change where you live. I know many foreigners that have been here for years, living together or being married with a Japanese lady, so yes some people do move permanently to Japan to be together with the person they love.

It's good to be aware that there are bad people out there, but it's not very nice to scare all the friendly girls away from us desperate (but still friendly) gaijins! There are bad people everywhere and it's up to ourselves to find out who they are.

There is no need to be a racists banana about this. Take it easy buddy

And your one of them...sounds good ,but dont flatter yourself!!..you sound nice.. deep inside your the same..back home you couldnt get away with it!!..enjoy your short stay here in Japan..keep a count on how many banana girls you hurt!!..oh yeah only some gaijins become pedophiles! not all.

CASE STUDY:
Daniel Brenar - he moved on to China.
Many Canadians gave up also, due to housing discrimination in the Kanasi area. "Key Money" They should call it 'cock money', because you take it in the ass from real estate agents and landlords.
JASPER

Bad day at work?

This is soooo true!!.. And whity gets upset!!..having a great day!!..

oooookaaay, whoever started this topic is a hater! lol Relax dude, sounds like YOU got dumped by a Japanese girl who realized you're a freak lol I'm kidding:) but I bet you will end up staying Japan anyway am I right? I have no idea what point you're trying to make but if you're having a bad day then go hit the punching machine and stop taking out on us. Who cares who gets dumped by who anyway? It's obviously not nice to generalize things as you should never say "ALL Japanese girls" or " ALL Gaijins". Yet you call yourself a "Observant Gaijin",,,hmmm interesting obviously you're not making clear observation.

J-girl

When are we getting married J-girl... I'm going to Thailand in 8 months, so hurry up! ;)

Jgirl sounds white!!...no Im married!..so I dont have any bad feelings against whitey and banana girls!!..its that Jgirl tries to be whity in a Japanese society..love your culture!!..and the guy that proposed to you and wants to go to Thailand!!...seems to like young ..oops very young asians..maybe!!..enjoy your hunt!!..and may your precious heart be saved!..nice words, but Jgirl will just be like whitey!!...do you want to live in a different country?...if so, keep trying you may find someone who REALLY wants to take you back to poverty!!...have a nice day all!

To Guest on Jan 23:

It's not that I have to explain myself to you but I'm NOT trying to be white or any other races just so you know! I'm just expressing my opinion in here and I didn't know that'll make me "white". lol You sound very ignorant to me, you don't think Japanese girls have an opinion?? Well, I can't speak for all J-girls but at least I know I do. I'm very pround to be Japanese and I'm not trying to be somebody else. It's funny because some "Gaijin" ppl complain about how they're discriminated in Japan because of their race but when they meet Japanese who doesn't necessarily act like "typical" Japanese, they assume I'm trying to be somebody else and expect you to act like "Japanese". Isn't that racism to you? I certainly woulnd't expect you to act like "American" or "Australian" or whereever you come from. Western culture sure knows how to respect the individuality so why not do the same in Japan?? I wish people here become less judgemental of things and stop being so close-minded.

J-girl