I was in love on the internet with the Japanese girl and she just dissapeared without telling me anything so it is hard to know my mistake and i am thinking is that the Japanese culture or personal culture !?


Nick

Only typical Japanese I can think of, is that maybe you said something wrong and instead of telling you directly, she prefers to avoid confronting you by giving you the reasons and instead just stops talking to you.

But cutting off internet contact happens in other countries too. Without meeting someone for real, it's easy to put someone out of your head without considering the effect on the other.

Try to see internet as a good way to make contact, but don't take it as a substitute for real contact. Don't fall in love until you know someone for real!

I agree with the prior post comment!

IF ONLY THERE WAS AN UNDULATING 'MOUTH' PORT INTRGRATED INTO MY COMPUTER.....
RIGHT, JASPER???

whatever you say, TROLL...!

did u meet her ?

yes i meet and stay 11 days without having any physical contact!
Nick

I met a guy from America through the interent ,I met him and stayed pretty often . Our situation was just like you guys .no physical contact ,It was ok at the begining , It made me feel comfortable with him .I felt I was safe with him .He looked nice person to me ,actually nice person.

I thought I would be his girlfriend since I could tell he liked me and I liked him too. But he didn't make action for a while .therefore I regarded him as my good friend when he asked me to be his girlfriend.
It's just timing .Nothing wrong with him .
we expect guys to make a first action at the right timing too much .
sometimes We need a little push (nicely ) to start relationship .

or maybe he thought you're not as attractive as he thought in person,,,

maybe yes maybe no . I don't know. But Why he asked me to be his girlfriend then ??