I can't stop wondering what makes you decide to get marrige with your gf or bf .
especially international relationship .
I am definetely sure They will have some culture gups ,perhaps easier for them to be together with someone from similar culture .
But some of us overcome and decide to get marrige .I think It's graet . What kind of things encourage you to get marrige with her or him .

If you have any idea you can share with me , Please let me know .
j.f

It's an interesting topic!
coz i have a foreign bf at this moment, and we are getting serious.
the thing is I am not that young....(I'm 28yr)
so i want to know this...

28 years is still young :|

As odd as it may sound, I think one of the biggest factors in deciding to get married is your age. If you're young, you usually think you're "too young to get married". When you start getting older you get more serious about marriage because the biological clock is ticking! ;)

The other factor for me is the same as with any relationship, having fun or enjoying the time together, in the broadest sense of the word. Whether you enjoy talking, drinking, working or partying together, the most important thing is you have fun while doing it!

So, to marry you should be old and have fun! ;)

No worries as long as you both love each other it does not matter where you are come from I met mi japanese wife in Canada we were both 20yo Iam from Mexico resident in canada then I said to mi Gf now mi wife and 3 lovely kids I just wanted to visit Japan for a short time it's been 17years that short trip LOL ahah mi advice is get in love evrthing will sort out eventually??wakaru???LOL

Thank you for lovely message. I do believe many of us has been encouraged by your message.

You're right you know

Jasmina

when u feel love u can start marriage it is just agreement of heart so no need to wait just go ahead .

if some partner disagree there is just justification !!

It depends on your feelings for each other but also your life plans. For example, a lot of college students who want to get married wait until they graduate and find a job. Or someone who's working on starting a business may want to reach a certain goal before getting married, because then he can focus on the marriage and not only work.

I don't think that international marriages are more difficult. I just think most people are not very flexible, and have trouble adapting to new situations. But I personally think it would be EASIER than a regular marriage. Why? Because it's more interesting, stimulating and motivating (for me). Some people just want COMFORT, and for them an international marriage must be pretty hard.

But most people dating gaijin are pretty adaptable already.

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