Agree. Why care so much about your race? Male are attracted to female and vice versa.

[I guess you can't have both brains and beauty and be single if you do then your already taken!!]

Be careful!!
I gusee the point of this topic is not just a question, it is a kind of 捨て台詞 or 挑戦状 for white boys especially from Japanese boys who have complex with white boys.

It is not common in Japan to date gaijin boys because
we do not have chance to meet them in our ordinal life, communication by English is so difficult, or we are too shy to be with white boys.
That is why, Japanese boys did not have worry most girls taken by white boys whether white boys like it or not.
(I have some Japanese boyfriends and they admit white boys are more handsome but dont have complex.)

Also, it is a stupid 島国根性, old japanese custom that attacks people who behave or think different from majority, may be different nuance for gaijin people...

Will people be talking about this kind of topic forever?

People are attracted to people because that's the way it is. Some guys like Asian girls, some like blonde girls, some like hip hop girls, some like girls with Louis Vuitton bags. Who cares?

Some girls like white guys, some like Asian guys, some like black guys, some like rich guys, some like backpacker guys. Who cares?

Not me.

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That would imply that Asian girls in the US have some inferiority complex against American girls, if an American guy dating an Asian girl is seen as a "step down". Personally I think that these Asian girls just don't like those American guys because they come off as "try hards": guys who just look desperate to pick up a girl. And no girl (Asian or American...or Asian American) wants to hang out with a desperate guy.

Usually Japanese boys who are jearous of white boys write this kind of topics.As most people admit, white boys are kind of brand among not white people, handsome, sophisticated in our images. However, we have rarely seen couples of Japanese boys and white girls. They dont have confidence,so have to look down on Japanese girls who prefer to staying with white boys and her boyfriends. Some Japanese boys are very mean....

Japanese girls are the most beautiful in the World in my opinion. Look at the one who runs this site, I think she is hot!

Why does anyone care?
Would it change anything if we knew the answer?

People are attracted to other people for uncountable reasons.

Japanese people always ask me why I prefer Japanese girls.
I tell them "I just do."

Me think Jasper has too much time on his hands. He no date anyone to think so much like this.

So why do you wanna go out with Japanese girls? Just because you are in Japan? Or, to you, Asian girls look more attractive? If so, why is that? Please don’t tell me, “Because Asian girls are motherly and submissive.” Most Japanese girls I met in the US didn’t like American guys who were into Asian girls. They think that those guys are perverts, or that they are after Asian girls because American girls wouldn’t take them.

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I've seen many unattractive gaijin with pretty girlfriends.
But really, linking the capacity or ambition to speak another language to how attractive a person is, makes no sense. There is no connection. Look at the paradox presented in arguments like that on these forums:

- "If you see a gaijin with a goodlooking japanese girl, she's probably using him to learn English"
- "If you see a gaijin with a girl who speaks English, she's usually ugly"

So learning how to speak English makes them ugly? Give me a break.

What I have noticed is that gaijin guys are often clueless about how to blend in with their clothing style in Japan. Their gf might wear clothing to fit the occasion and her gaijin bf will wear leasure clothes like he would at home - totally not fitting the norm of clothing in Japan.

You could say the guy's bad at making his appearance work, that he's ugly and that she just wants to learn English. OR you could say she's attracted to the fact that he goes his own way and keeps his own style in a country where that's quite unusual.

Try to think a little bit longer, please. Makes the world so much more fun.

Jasper